How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 28.06.2025 00:03
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Ask yourself:
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
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Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
What is the best way to end a relationship with someone who has future plans with you?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
That's it for today.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Why are white women so overly emotional?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
I'm pretty sure that my dog is transgender, how would I go about transitioning it?
Does not procrastinate.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Procrastinates a lot.
Making more friends is a goal.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
What I need from you?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Do not set goals—set systems.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.